Love Dilemma … (My STORY).. I Need Your Advice…..
Note: Name has been changed to protect the identity of the victim
My name is Laala,I am 22yrs, A student of a reputable School in Nigeria, i got to know about this on facebook and decided to contact you for advise on this platform. I need your help. I came back on a long break from school ill and as usual had to visit my family doctor.During diagnosis,he got fascinated by the fact that i was still a virgin at my age and asked so many questions.
He prescribed my drugs and asked for my private cell number to check up on my health.’what the hell’ he means no harm,He is my family Doctor, I said to myself. He started calling in a friendly matured way and I found him interesting.
He offered me a part time job for my holidays which was me tutoring his 15yr old son in chemistry. I accepted and didn’t tell my parent cos I knew they wouldn’t approve. As a student studying chemical Engineering,I would visit the State library every working day to study during my holidays. I started cutting my Library hours short to go for my part time job. My Family doctor was so nice to me. He would drop me at home if i was running late,He paid me well too. But then He fell in love with me and I liked him too so we hit it off but I told him I wasn’t ready for sex for two reasons.
1) Because I wasn’t ready and
2) He was seperated from his wife.
Everything was going on well but he started asking for more from me.we were doing everything except him penetrating me. Then one evening, when we were both cozy in bed, kissing and all, He asked if he could penetrate me and I said I wasn’t ready. I stood up to leave but he grabbed me and pushed me back on the bed ( He was filled with burning desire that made him look like a mad man) and then in my heart I knew what would happen. I begged him to please let me go but he held me strongly to the bed and forced himself into me from the back and didn’t stop till he was done.
I remember fighting and crying till i couldnt hear myself anymore, I couldnt move. He bent down to pick me up from the bed and I saw my blood all over and couldn’t stop crying. He prepared a hot water bath quickly and bathed me. I was helpless and in pain, i wouldn’t look at him.Then he said he was sorry, That he didn’t know I was saying the truth all along.
He carried me to the car n drove me home. He gave me some contraceptives to take and kept apologising. I got home and didnt say a word to my parents. He has been calling me since then and sending text messages apologising,Saying he is really in love with me and he is sorry.I feel so broken and betrayed. I haven’t said a word either to him or my parents. If you were in my shoes, what will you do?