HOPE KPONI – HARSH TRUTHS I HAD TO LEARN MYSELF
You have to pick yourself up
No matter what you’ve gone through or experiencing in life, never give up.. Regardless of the downfall, you can get back up gain..Don’t wait for anyone to come pick you up cos we all have our individual issues we are battling with
Nobody owes you anything
As a young lady back then, i used to think people owe me and are responsible for me, but through life, i have realized nobody owes you nothing, you have to work hard to get anything you want.
This is an unfortunate truth.. Truth they say is bitter. Nobody cares what you going through, all they want to see is the result and rejoice with you.. Most times, people act like they care because of what they have to gain from you and once they are done.. You are nothing to them anymore
people are faster to type RIP than “how are you
It’s soo easy to type RIP than how are you… Learn to live your life right and be yourself. Take care of your body and have a good diet everyday cos once you are gone, the best you’ll get is RIP
Anybody can do you dirty, friends or family
Anybody can do you dirty, no matter how much you think you you are loved, always watch your back…
Anybody can change at any moment
The person you know 6 months ago might not be the same person today, be careful how much you trust people. People change from good to bad, people change from bad to good.. Be careful not to fall victim , BE WISE.
people only remember the one time you did them wrong despite how many times you have done it right for them
Always remember that you can’t satisfy everyone. Do the good you can and leave the rest and always go around and live life with the mindset of ” Anything i do will be against me in the court of law”
Maturity is not by age
This is soo evident from experience. I’ve seen grown fully bearded men act like teenagers and kids while younger ones act more matured… Don’t be decieved by age, look more at character than age.
People would take advantage of you the minute you act weak
In this world we find ourselves, please never lose your guard.. Everyone just wanna take advantage of your weakness and ignorance. 30 seconds weakness and they are taking advantage.
Money isn’t happiness
Looking around, we get to see rich people having chronic sicknesses, having high blood pressure and seriously having problems. Let your mind be at peace with what you have and be contented.. Money doesn’t buy happiness
Every decision you make is your choice so don’t ever blame nobody for your life
I’ve realized in my life that anything i do is directly or indirectly linked to my decision, so one can’t afford to make wrong decisions . No room for errors. Never blame anyone for your mistakes, be wise, make the right decisions.
Even the ones you claim to take a bullet for would pull the trigger
Some of us here can relate to this.. Let’s make the right decisions and be wise
You get hurt and such is life
Being hurt is part of life… You just get to dust yourself up and move on
The person talking to you about someone would talk about you to someone
This is a great truth for those who don’t know this yet, always remember your best friend has some other friends they talk too too.
They want you doing better but never better than them
People wants you to be fine and happy and living a good life but the unfortuante truth is people don’t want anyone doing better than them.
You are your best inspiration
You are the best thing that can ever happen to you, be your own inspiration.. wake up, look into the mirror every morning and tell yourself good things. You are the best of your kind… No one can be you better than you..
Nobody else would love you if you don’t love you
Nothing in earth supercedes self love. Love yourself, care for yourself, be happy, eat good, making yourself your greatest priority.
You choose not to say No, you choose to be broke ,you choose to let them treat you wrong ,you choose to be fat, you choose to be lazy, you choose to be a fool
So please stop blaming people about everything that goes on in your life
Man the F up and own it
It’s your life
Walk out of a meaningless relationship
Workout and eat right
Start up something (No step is too small)
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