Ebimoboere Igbadiwei : STRUGGLE

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It’s crazy sometimes when you observe all that happens around you. You look at most people and see how perfect their lives seem and you begin to question yourself on why you have to struggle for everything when you feel others get it at ease.

At a certain age you look at your age group and their progress and it looks like things just work out for them without stress. Truth is we often forget that everyone has a story and a struggle. It is true that some parents go the extra mile to make sure their kids do not suffer but even those kids we feel have no problem struggle with so many other things. Every human has a story good or bad and not everyone comes out to tell it. We must remember any ways that “THIS LIFE NO BALANCE” and everyone cannot be equal but in all this, with God’s grace and hard work “WE GO DEY ALRIGHT”.

Here are a few tips to help us deal with our struggles:

 

NAME YOUR STRUGGLES: Everyday in the life of every human, you have to work to get more. If you see your hard work as a struggle, you may get discouraged and give up but with a good name like HUSTLE rather than STRUGGLE you get a better motivation to keep pushing

 

FIND HAPPINESS IN WHAT YOU DO: Rather than work hard most people make excuses for everything they do. When you find happiness in what you do things become easier and better success is assured. Complaints do not get you anywhere.

 

STAY POSITIVE: Staying positive also brings out the beauty of the struggle. Most people go through a lot but find happiness in what they do. Staying positive attracts positive results.

 

PLAN EARLY: Planing your life early is an essential step every human has to take in life. There is no reason to say its too early because all fingers are not equal and hard work takes time and patience.

If you feel you have gotten it wrong by not planning early and you have gotten to a stage where you are content then encourage your children and young ones around you to plan early.

As a growing young man you now there will come a day when you would settle down and raise a family whose expenses would be on you, starting the struggle (hustle/journey) early would prepare you for a better future

As a young lady with an ambition to become a boss lady, early planning is essential to help you build your empire and when you become a family woman you can boldly surpport your spouse and children.

 

 

ADVICE: The struggle and how you go about it matters a lot. Find the beauty in your struggle, give it the best name to motivate you to do better. Work on your life and how you want it to be. Do not forget that grace is a neccesity so pray for grace.

 

 

 

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